so that's odd.

the politics of relationships. this goes out to my ladies! here's the 411:

there's something off about a man who feels the need to give you nice ass gifts right from the start.

my friend met a guy who turned out to be a rich music producer. he offered to buy her a bedroom set after finding out she sleeps on a futon. she's in law school. i think assumed she's a project chick who needs the help. LOL. he referred to her as his "cavalli chick". i would've died. C'MON SON. that's not cute. if i need a bed i can buy one, you don't need to do it for me.

rule number one - don't accept gifts (even though you might really be tempted) from men you just met. it's odd. they don't know you. they will think they own you, making you feel somehow indebted. my mom agrees.